When technology malfunctions—like a frozen computer at a crucial moment, a GPS guiding us into traffic, or a washing machine halting mid-cycle—our initial response is usually frustration. These common annoyances often spark irritation. However, a recent study by two Israeli researchers suggests a surprising insight: we tend to extend forgiveness to machines in much the same way we do to other people.
Forgiveness in Human-Machine Interaction: Study by Holtzman and Nimrod
In a recent publication in Frontiers in Computer Science, Inbal Holtzman and Prof. Galit Nimrod from Ben-Gurion University’s Department of Communication Studies explored this phenomenon for the first time. Their research aimed to uncover what forgiveness looks like in human-machine interactions and to understand why users choose to keep using a technology even after it has let them down.
“We set out to examine whether emotions such as frustration or disappointment with technology could eventually lead to forgiveness, enabling people to continue using it without holding a grudge,” Holtzman explains.
To explore this, the researchers conducted focus groups with 27 young adults—both students and professionals—who shared their experiences with technology failures. The discussions quickly shifted from technical issues to emotional responses. Participants used expressive language, saying things like, “The computer betrayed me,” “The app let me down,” or “The phone doesn’t understand me.” They were then asked how they responded to these situations and whether they were able to forgive the device.
How Users Forgive Technology: Strategies and Acceptance
The findings revealed several different forgiveness strategies. Some participants weighed the pros and cons—if the benefits of the technology outweighed the inconvenience of the malfunction, they were more likely to forgive and continue using it. Others placed the blame on humans, such as developers, engineers, or even themselves, which made it easier to excuse the failure.
Some participants looked for ways to engage with the technology or the companies behind it—features like pop-up messages acknowledging issues or easy access to customer support were seen as gestures that encouraged forgiveness. Others simply accepted that technology, while imperfect, is an essential part of modern life.
The study also revealed notable differences among users. Those who were more tech-savvy and comfortable with digital tools tended to be more forgiving, likely because they recognized the complexity of such systems and saw errors as normal. On the other hand, participants who were skeptical of smart devices from the beginning were less inclined to forgive and, in some cases, stopped using the technology altogether after it failed.
Prof. Nimrod concluded that our interactions with machines have evolved beyond being purely functional. “We now relate to them more like companions—we feel let down, get frustrated, but we also forgive,” she said. “In many ways, our phones, apps, and devices have become part of our emotional and social worlds.”
Designing Forgiveness: Practical Implications for Technology and User Trust
The study also points to important real-world applications. If tech companies recognize that users seek more than just technical fixes—that they also want their frustration acknowledged—they might design systems that are more transparent or even express regret. For example, a screen that explains the error or a robot that says, “Sorry, something went wrong,” could help build trust and strengthen the user experience. As AI, apps, and robots become more integrated into daily life, understanding how people forgive technology could play a key role in shaping better human-machine relationships.
“Maybe in the near future, we’ll grow accustomed to hearing not just ‘Update completed successfully,’ but also ‘Sorry, we made a mistake,’” says Holtzman. “The real question is whether we’ll be willing to accept that apology—and offer forgiveness.”
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